For couples who love each other—but miss feeling like a couple
Re-Date Your Marriage™
You just don't want to feel like roommates anymore.
Between work, kids, schedules, responsibilities, and everyday life, it's easy for marriage to become more about managing life than enjoying each other.
Re-Date Your Marriage™ is a self-paced online course from a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist. It gives you a practical, guided way to reconnect, rebuild friendship, communicate better, and start dating each other again.
Founding Couples price: $127 per couple, one-time payment. See pricing
Samantha Sanders, MA, LMFT
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist · Founder of Therapize Counseling & Wellness
- Self-paced, with ongoing access
- Educational course, not therapy
- Secure checkout through Thinkific
You don’t have to wait for a crisis
You love each other. But somewhere along the way, life took over.
Work. Kids. Schedules. Laundry. Appointments. Bills. Practices. Groceries. Emails. Bedtime. Repeat.
You may still function well as a team. But somewhere between managing the household and getting through the week, you stopped feeling as much like partners, friends, and lovers.
Maybe most of your conversations are logistical. Maybe date nights became rare. Maybe affection and playfulness aren’t what they used to be. Or maybe there isn’t one major problem at all. You’re simply not as connected as you used to be.
It doesn’t have to stay that way.
Is it right for you?
Re-Date Your Marriage™ may be for you if…
- You love each other but feel like you've slipped into roommate mode.
- Most of your conversations revolve around schedules, kids, work, or responsibilities.
- You want to feel more connected without waiting for something to be seriously wrong.
- You haven't been on a real date with each other in a while.
- You want better conversations, not simply fewer arguments.
- You want to strengthen friendship, affection, intimacy, and fun.
- Life keeps crowding out your relationship.
- You've both changed over the years and want to keep getting to know each other.
- You want to put more effort into the marriage you're building.
- You're both willing to participate and put what you learn into practice.
This isn't about creating a perfect marriage. It's about putting more effort into the one you have.
Enroll Now – $127$127 per couple · one-time payment · no subscriptionWhat you’ll work on together
A self-paced marriage-enrichment course
Across 10 guided modules, you’ll do more than watch videos about relationships. You’ll actually work on yours.
Rediscover Each Other
Move beyond assumptions and get curious about who your spouse is today, not simply who they were when you first met.
Rebuild Friendship
Bring more fun, appreciation, shared experiences, rituals, curiosity, and enjoyment back into your relationship.
Communicate Better
Practice listening, validation, softer starts, healthy pauses, repair, and conversations that prioritize understanding.
Date & Reconnect
Move date night from something you keep saying you “should” do to something you actually make time for.
Protect Your Partnership
Identify what's crowding out your relationship and create boundaries around the things competing for your attention.
Build Your Future
Talk about your values, dreams, experiences, goals, priorities, and the life you're building together.
Inside the course
What you get
Sample workbook pages
Tap a page to see it full size
Intentional Date Planner
Plan a date you'll both enjoy
The Curiosity Date
Module 2 guided date
Curiosity Date Guide
Discovery, not problem-solving
Shared Future Plan
Your shared future list
Shared Future Plan
Pick one dream and take a first step
Shared Future Plan
Your couple vision
10 Guided Modules
Move through the course together at a pace that gives you time to apply what you're learning.
49 Lessons
You don't need to race through 49 lessons or carve out hours every week. Use what matters and return to the tools whenever you need them.
Guided Video Lessons
Watch together whenever possible and use the content as a starting point for conversations.
Companion Workbooks
Turn concepts into reflection, discussion, planning, and action.
Marriage Assessments & Reflection Exercises
Identify strengths, areas of distance, priorities, habits, and opportunities for connection.
Couple Challenges
Take what you're learning away from the screen and put it into practice.
Reusable Relationship Tools
Keep using the planners, conversation guides, check-ins, and reset tools after you finish.
Relationship Maintenance Plan
Finish with a practical system for looking after your relationship over time.
Tools you’ll keep coming back to
- Intentional Date Planner
- Rituals of Connection Planner
- Communication Reset Guide
- Spark Menu
- Partnership Protection Plan
- Shared Future Plan
- Relationship Maintenance Plan
What you can expect
Feel like a couple again, instead of two people managing a household.
The goal isn’t to finish 10 modules. The goal is to change what happens after you close the laptop.
- A clearer understanding of what helps each of you feel connected
- New things you've learned about the person you're married to
- A realistic plan for regular dates
- Better tools for difficult conversations
- A plan for reconnecting after disconnection
- More friendship, affection, and fun
- Boundaries that help protect your relationship from everyday demands
- Conversations about the future you're building together
- Weekly, monthly, quarterly, and annual relationship check-ins
- A Relationship Maintenance Plan you can return to when life starts pulling your attention elsewhere
Course outline
10 guided modules
- 1
Module 1: Marriage Reset
Take an honest look at where your relationship is today, identify areas of connection and distance, and decide what you want to get from the course.
- 2
Module 2: Rediscover Your Spouse
Challenge the assumption that you already know everything about your partner and get curious about the person they are becoming.
- 3
Module 3: Rebuilding Friendship
Strengthen the friendship underneath your marriage through appreciation, fun, shared experiences, rituals, and time together.
- 4
Module 4: Communication That Builds Intimacy
Practice listening to understand, validation, softer starts, healthy pauses, repair, and communication that creates connection rather than defensiveness.
- 5
Module 5: Re-Date Your Marriage
Turn “we should go on more dates” into action by identifying what you enjoy together and making time to date again.
- 6
Module 6: Everyday Connection
Create small, sustainable connection habits that help your relationship stay present even during ordinary and busy seasons.
- 7
Module 7: Keeping the Spark Alive
Explore affection, playfulness, romance, anticipation, attraction, and ways to keep romance going in a long-term relationship.
- 8
Module 8: Protect Your Partnership
Identify what is crowding out your marriage and set boundaries, priorities, and relationship non-negotiables that protect your “us.”
- 9
Module 9: Build a Shared Future
Explore your current dreams, values, goals, experiences, priorities, and the life you want to build together.
- 10
Module 10: Make It Last
Bring everything together into a practical Relationship Maintenance Plan designed to help you notice when you're drifting apart and reconnect.
Why I created Re-Date Your Marriage™
Healthy relationships need attention before crisis, too
I created Re-Date Your Marriage™ to give couples practical relationship tools they can use before disconnection becomes crisis. So much attention in relationships goes toward what to do once things have gone wrong.
Marriage changes over time because people change over time. The goal isn’t to recreate exactly what your relationship looked like when you first met. It’s to continue getting to know, choosing, dating, communicating with, and building a life with the person you’re married to now.
Samantha Sanders, MA, LMFT
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist & Founder of Therapize Counseling & Wellness. About Samantha
Founding Couples Enrollment
Start re-dating your marriage
Regular price $197
$127 per couple
One purchase covers both of you. One-time payment · No subscription · Immediate access.
Enroll Now – $127Founding Couples pricing is available to the first 30 couples.
- 10 guided relationship modules
- 49 self-paced lessons
- Guided video instruction
- Companion workbooks
- Marriage assessments & reflection exercises
- Conversation guides
- Couple challenges
- Dating & connection activities
- Reusable relationship tools
- Relationship Maintenance Plan
- Ongoing access
In exchange for the founding price, I’ll invite you to share feedback about your experience so I can keep improving the program for future couples. Feedback is encouraged; testimonials are completely optional.
Checkout is handled securely by Thinkific. By purchasing, you agree to the Terms & Conditions and Refund Policy.
Questions
Frequently asked questions
Is Re-Date Your Marriage™ couples therapy?
No. Re-Date Your Marriage™ is a self-paced educational marriage-enrichment program. It is not individualized therapy, mental health treatment, crisis intervention, or a replacement for professional care when needed.
Is the $127 price per person or per couple?
Per couple. One $127 purchase gives you both access to the complete Re-Date Your Marriage™ course to work through together.
Is this a subscription?
No. It's a one-time payment with no recurring charges, and you keep ongoing access to the course.
Do we have to complete the course together?
Completing the course together is encouraged because many of the exercises are designed to create conversations and shared experiences. You can also watch lessons and complete individual reflection portions separately before coming together for the couple exercises.
How quickly should we complete it?
There is no need to rush. The goal is application, not speed. Give yourselves enough time between modules to practice what you're learning and have the conversations the material creates.
Is this only for marriages that are struggling?
No. Re-Date Your Marriage™ is built around regular relationship maintenance and enrichment. Couples do not need to wait until their relationship is in crisis to invest in it.
What if my spouse isn't really a “course person”?
That's okay. Re-Date Your Marriage™ isn't designed around sitting together watching hours of lectures. The lessons are meant to create conversations, dates, reflections, activities, and real-life experiences. You can move through the program at your own pace and focus on putting the tools into practice.
What if we've been married for a long time?
That's one of the reasons rediscovery is part of the program. People continue changing throughout marriage. Knowing your spouse well doesn't mean there is nothing left to discover.
Will Re-Date Your Marriage™ fix our marriage?
No course can guarantee a particular relationship outcome. Re-Date Your Marriage™ provides education, conversations, exercises, and practical tools designed to help couples invest more in their relationship.
How long will we have access?
Your purchase includes ongoing access to the course so you can revisit the lessons and resources when your relationship could use a refresher or reset.
What happens after I purchase?
You'll complete your purchase through our secure course platform, Thinkific, create your student account, and receive immediate access to Re-Date Your Marriage™. Begin with Module 1 and move through the program at your own pace.
What is the refund policy?
Because Re-Date Your Marriage™ provides immediate access to digital course content and downloadable materials, purchases are final and non-refundable except where otherwise required by applicable law. Please review the full Refund Policy before purchasing.
Stop waiting to find more time for your relationship.
Start choosing it.
Enroll Now – $127$127 per couple · one-time payment · no subscriptionMarriage Enrichment, Not Marriage Therapy
Re-Date Your Marriage™ is a self-guided educational marriage-enrichment program. It provides relationship education, reflection exercises, conversation prompts, and practical tools couples can use to invest more in their relationship.
It is not couples therapy, individualized mental health treatment, diagnosis, crisis intervention, or a substitute for professional care when needed. The program is not designed to determine whether a couple should remain together or to address situations in which safety, abuse, coercion, or crisis requires specialized support. If you’d like one-on-one help, see couples therapy in Portage.